When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or to take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just too busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like “I wanna lose 15 lbs first!” And “I just don’t have the money right now!” I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, You CAN DO IT! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self-love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but it’s actually much harder said than done! Sometimes I am the worst at making sure I am giving myself health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses, and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute!”
At a boudoir shoot you’re able to breathe and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself. Why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise / I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size“
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT.
I’ll say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say this before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to love yourself? WHY do you have to fit a stranger’s messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same!
I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to be healthy, but does that mean you can’t love your body along the way? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose that “x” lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come!
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
WRONG.
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to get that spark back in us. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a park between you and your loved one as well!
Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, then there are many other outfit ideas I go over in the Outfit Guide you’ll receive when you book. And if you need more ideas, I’m happy to talk with you about it!
“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. It’s also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! But you don’t have to pay it all at once. In order to book your shoot, there is a booking retainer for half the session fee, with the other half due before the shoot. There are also no-interest payment plans available for images and products!
If you have any questions about my payment plans, shoot me an email while setting up your shoot!